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夫妻宮
Fū Qī Gōng

The Spouse Palace · The Mirror of Union

The Mirror of Union  ·  Marriage Palace  ·  Palace 03 of 12

Marriage The life partner Intimate union The closest one-to-one bond

The Spouse Palace is the room of marriage and intimate partnership, the place a reader turns to for the life partner and the shape of a person's closest bond.

The name, character by character

Three characters: 夫, 妻 and 宮

The palace name is written 夫妻宮 fū qī gōng. Take the three characters apart and the name stops being a label and starts telling you what the room is for.

Meaning
Husband, and more broadly an adult man. It is the everyday word for a woman's husband and pairs directly with the word for wife.
Components
The figure of a standing adult, , a person with arms and legs spread, crossed near the top by a single horizontal stroke.
Origin
Most references read 夫 (fū) as the picture of a grown man: the standing figure 大 (dà) with a horizontal line across the top that stands for a hairpin worn in the topknot. In old China a young man received that hairpin at his capping ceremony to mark that he had come of age, so the added stroke turns a plain person into an adult man, and from there into a husband. A few sources treat the top stroke simply as a mark that tells 夫 apart from 大, but the hairpin reading is the common one.
Meaning
Wife, the married woman of a household, and the natural pair to 夫 (fū). The two characters together are the plain word for a married couple.
Components
At the base sits , woman. Above it are a hand shape and a stroke usually read as hair.
Origin
妻 (qī) is generally read as a woman 女 (nǚ) with a hand reaching to her head. Traditional dictionaries explain the upper part as a hand arranging or holding hair, and a widely repeated reading ties it to an old marriage custom in which a hand takes hold of a woman's hair. The exact sense of the top is not fully settled, and a few sources trace other origins, yet every reading keeps 女 (nǚ), woman, as the base with a hand above it.
gōng
Meaning
Palace, hall, or chamber. The same character names a real imperial palace and, more plainly, a room inside a building.
Components
The roof radical mián covers the top. Under it sits a lower part traditionally read as , two small enclosed shapes stacked together.
Origin
宮 (gōng) is usually explained as a picture of a roof with several connected rooms beneath it, that is, many chambers under one roof, which is what set a palace apart from an ordinary house. Some sources read the lower shapes as connected rooms and others as windows or openings, so the fine detail is not fully settled, but the shared idea is a large sheltered building divided into rooms.

Put the three together and 夫妻宮 fū qī gōng reads, character by character, as the palace of husband and wife: the room that holds a person's marriage. Every one of the twelve palaces ends in 宮 (gōng), one room of the chart. The characters in front say which room, and here 夫 (fū) and 妻 (qī), husband and wife, mark it as the room of the partner.

What it governs

The room of marriage

The Spouse Palace covers marriage and intimate partnership: the life partner a person tends to draw, the quality of that bond, and the way they love and are loved in a close one-to-one union.

In plain reading terms, this palace answers the question people most often bring to a chart: who is my partner, and what will marriage be like for me. The stars that sit here describe the type of person a reader expects to appear as the spouse, the tone of the relationship, and the patterns that tend to repeat in it. This is the room of the closest bond, so it takes in courtship, the marriage itself, and the way two people wear on each other over years.

On the functional side, a reader treats the Spouse Palace as the map of the partnership: how easily union comes, whether it arrives early or late, and where the friction is likely to sit. On the cultural side, the character pair 夫妻 (fū qī), husband and wife, ties the room to marriage in the traditional sense, the formal joining of two households, not only romance in the abstract. Both senses are read together in the same room.

A useful shorthand from the tradition: the star in the Spouse Palace describes the partner and the bond, and the court around it tells you how steady that bond is likely to be.
How it is read

What a reader actually looks at

Reading the Spouse Palace is a short, fixed routine. You look at four things, in order, and you never read the room on its own.

  1. The star seated here. Find which of the fourteen major stars sits in the Spouse Palace (some charts have one, some have two, some have none). That star is the main description of the partner and the bond. If two stars share the room, you read them as a pair.
  2. Its brightness. Each star has a strength level for the position it lands in, from bright and fully expressed down to dim and struggling. The same star reads very differently bright versus dim, so brightness tells you how smoothly the partnership tends to run, not whether it is good or bad.
  3. The opposite palace. Directly across the chart from the Spouse Palace sits 官祿宮 guān lù gōng, the Career palace. Whatever sits there shines straight back across the axis and colors the marriage, so it is read as the single strongest companion to the Spouse Palace, and the tie between love and work is read right here.
  4. The triangle and the full court. Two more palaces sit four positions away on each side: 遷移宮 qiān yí gōng (Travel) and 福德宮 fú dé gōng (Wellbeing). Those two plus the opposite palace form the court, called 三方四正 sān fāng sì zhèng. A troubled Spouse Palace can be steadied by a strong court, and an easy one can be undercut by a damaged court.
This is a page for learning the reading, not a calculator. To find which star sits in your own Spouse Palace you cast a chart, which the handoff at the foot of this page links to.
What if…

Different stars in the Spouse Palace

Here are five worked examples of what a reader might say when a given star sits in the Spouse Palace. Treat each as a starting sketch, not a verdict: brightness and the court can shift any of them a long way.

貪狼tān lángThe Desire star here

貪狼 (tān láng), the Desire star, in the Spouse Palace points to a marriage charged with attraction and appetite. This is often a person who draws romance easily, enjoys courtship, and wants a bond that stays lively rather than quiet and settled.

The same pull can scatter, so a reader checks brightness and the court. Strong support tends to gather the charm into one lasting union, while a weak setting can read as many starts or a wandering eye.

Read the 貪狼 tān láng star page

天同tiān tóngThe Harmony star here

天同 (tiān tóng), the Harmony star, in the Spouse Palace reads as a gentle, affectionate, easygoing union. The partner tends to be mild and warm, the tone of the marriage is contented, and the pair look for comfort and peace together.

The soft side of this star can tip into passivity, so a reader looks at the court to see whether the couple carries enough drive to build a life as well as to enjoy one.

Read the 天同 tiān tóng star page

武曲wǔ qūThe Finance General here

武曲 (wǔ qū), the Finance General, in the Spouse Palace points to a capable, decisive, practical partner, someone competent and steady rather than sentimental. Marriage under this star often arrives later, after the person has settled.

Because this star is strong-willed and reserved with feeling, a reader watches for coolness or a clash of wills, and reads the court to see whether warmth balances the practical streak.

Read the 武曲 wǔ qū star page

太陰tài yīnThe Moon here

太陰 (tài yīn), the Moon, in the Spouse Palace reads as a tender, attentive, home-loving bond. The partner is often gentle and nurturing, and the marriage carries a quiet, private warmth.

Brightness matters more than usual for this star. A bright Moon reads as calm devotion; a dim one reads as worry or emotional distance, so the strength level is the first thing a reader checks.

Read the 太陰 tài yīn star page

An empty Spouse Palace

Some charts have no major star in the Spouse Palace at all. Rather than read an empty room, the tradition borrows the stars sitting in the opposite palace, 官祿宮 guān lù gōng (Career), and reads them into the marriage.

In plain words, an empty Spouse Palace often points to a bond shaped strongly by outside conditions, by timing, work, and circumstance more than by one fixed pattern. It is not a sign of no marriage, and it makes the opposite palace and the wider court matter even more than usual.

See the opposite palace, 官祿宮 Guān Lù Gōng

See all fourteen major stars, side by side

How Chinese readers think about it

The palace that mirrors the self

The palace idea is not decoration. It comes from a real picture: a court laid out as rooms, each one holding a part of a life.

The whole system, 紫微斗數 zǐ wēi dǒu shù, literally the Purple Star and the Dipper, maps a life onto the layout of an imperial court. The stars carry court titles: an emperor, a general, a prime minister, a treasury. It follows that the rooms they live in are called gōng, palaces, because that is where a court lives. Reading a chart is a little like walking through a palace compound and seeing which official is standing in which hall.

In that layout the Spouse Palace is the room of the marriage partner, marked by 夫妻 fū qī, husband and wife. Chinese readers rarely stop at the plain question of who a person will marry. A classic idea holds that this room mirrors the self: the partner someone draws tends to reflect their own nature, so reading the marriage room is quietly a second reading of the person sitting in the Command Palace, 命宮 mìng gōng.

The mirror also runs across the chart. Directly opposite sits the Career palace, 官祿宮 guān lù gōng, so love and public work face each other on one axis. The tradition reads them as a pair held in tension: how a marriage goes and how a working life goes are tied together, and strain in one often shows up in the other. That double reflection, the self on one side and the career on the other, is why the room is also called the Mirror of Union.

Its court

The three palaces read with it

The Spouse Palace is never read alone. Three other rooms are always read with it: the opposite palace and the two triangle partners. Together they make the court, 三方四正 sān fāng sì zhèng. These palace pages are being built; the links point to them.

Cast your chart and read your own Spouse Palace

Once you know which star sits in your Spouse Palace, its brightness, and its court, everything on this page becomes a reading of your own marriage rather than a lesson.

Cast your chart